Why is it..? 🤔


Why is it, Reader, that everyone is so quick to complain about what's stressing them out?

We all take a chance to complain.. and yes, even me at times!

"I can't believe that [beep] at work said this.."

"I'm so sick of it being like this."

"You don't understand me."

"I feel like I'm on the merry-go-round and I want to get off."

"Did anyone get the number plate of the truck that just went through me?"

I could go on, but I know you get my drift. (Reply to me with your repeat gripe.)

But, do you know what this language does?

It creates CONFIRMATION BIAS..

Your brain will get to understand that complaining is your truth, and it will literally give you more reasons to complain.

That's how the brain works. It's primary job is to keep us safe, and it only knows what you believe is safe and true.

So, you can continue on attracting more ju ju to confirm your state of mind..

Or, you can switch it up.

It might seem hard at first, so how about I make it really easy for you?

Tonight in THE HEALING CIRCLE we are holding our monthly meditation call.

We teach your brain its safe to be still, and blissful. We hand you the metaphorical platter of peace.

And I'm giving it to you for less than the price I always previously offered it.

It's a no brainer - see what I did there?!

Will you join us, Reader, in this beautiful space just for women.

So then, with practice, your brain can start to feel a little more like this...

See you tonight?

I hope so🩷

Love,

Ali x

Ali Williams (alijwilliams.com)

Sharing uncomplicated truths to encourage and educate women to embrace their healing power.

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